Thursday, September 3, 2015

surviving 19 hours fast,medication's side effects and exam's revision

i was meant to update my blog for quite sometime but i'm a bit busy doing nothing after my and now i have started my final year alhamdulillah. the shortest year'll be just 6 months till my final exam.please make a lot of duas for me.

4th year was the longest and most difficult year in my entire journey in medical school. i dont know about final year yet add to that, we had our exam a few days before eid and two papers after eid. so imagine trying to stay awake during a hot summer day when you have to fast for almost 19 hours. I was on my tablet and side effects were quite bad at that time. I was sooo worried that I would be dehydrated but alhamdulillah Allah helped me and I made it through that month!! and I passed! ALHAMDULILLAH ALHAMDULILLAH. you have no idea how scary the result day was. we were sent the email and I waited about 30 mins before I told anyone mine just in case they sent me the wrong result. that showed how little confidence I have  because the exams were really tough. but alhamdulillah I passed.. lol..

Being a final year medical student is scary as well. Everyone expect you to at least know something. I hope I do..I cant wait to finish medical school. just 6 more months. this is the least I could do for my parents. the gift I pray so hard to be able to give them. Hopefully Allah will help me and make my dream come true. Amin

Monday, February 16, 2015

short interview with Safiyya TV9

Assalamualaikum wbt.

I hope everyone is doing fine :)

so the interview was aired yesterday in Malaysia and I have got so many responses from so many people. Thank you so much for making time to write to me in FB,emails and comment on my pictures with those amazing supportive and comforting words. May Allah bless all of you and your effort.

I was really touched by your kind gestures and yes all prayers and dua are highly appreciated.

I know most people are very concern about me being in London away from my family but be rest assured that i have so many people supporting me here. My family, yes they are in Malaysia but they are ver close to me. My sisters know most of the thing that happen to me daily. we've got whatsapp and skype. there are so many ways available to communicate. yes they cannot be here physically but i know they never forget me in their prayers and that is the best thing one can ever do. it's like asking the One who has the power,who controls everything to take care of me.Nothing beats that,isnt it?

Here in London, I have friends that act like my own family. whenever i have some issues, they come running to help me and I really thank Allah for putting these amazing people in my life.

These are the people who stay with me through the most difficult days in medical school as well as the happiest moment in London. They are there when i need support or just friends to rant about life. <3

My two lovely local friends! their family treat me like their own daughter.they are always around reminding me about Allah and His greatness.

And i have a lot of friends texting me every now and then all the way from malaysia to make sure that i am ok.
Alhamdulillah. I never felt like i'm in this alone and that makes me feel so grateful and thankful to Allah. I pray that all of you who directly or indirectly wish and pray for the best to happen to me to be blessed.may Allah protect us all and grant us the best place in jannah.

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

kindness i never be able to repay

Assalamualaikum wbt

i have got a lot of questions after i posted about me being in the Safiyya TV9 slot this coming Sunday about my general health as a whole and a few other questions. I'm giving you all the links to my previous posts which i think would give you a general idea about what has been happening. Thank you so much for the words of support and prayers. May Allah bless all of youu.

Cerita 1
Cerita 2
Cerita 3
Cerita 4

Cerita 5
Cerita 6

And in the Cerita 4 link there are a few links to my sister's blog sharing the insight from a sister's point of view as well as the update about my situation at that time. To cancer fighters out there, if you would like to get in touch with me, please feel free to send me a message through facebook.

As for now alhamdulillah i am off the medication for 3 months and i will have my ct scan in 2 months time.if it's still stable(hopefully it will be) then i will be able to be off medication longer.prayers are much appreciated :)

Tuesday, January 27, 2015


i dont know but i just feel like i owe everyone an apology.if i ever hurt anyone directly or indirectly with whatever means i really really hope that you can forgive me.if i come across as someone really annoying in my writing or just simply did something that i should not,please forgive me. I will pray that Allah will reward you abundantly for being kind enough to forgive me

Sunday, January 18, 2015

the day i redefine LOVE


2 years.731 days 1 hour and 20 minutes. it's been that long since i started learning about LOVE in a way I would never have imagined. the day when i was brought into the operation theater with a possibility of not waking up again to see my loved ones. the day i let go of all my plans and trusted His.the day I told myself that if i was given another chance to see them again,to be able to breath again, I would do it differently.

it has been 2 years since that day and i keep on reminding myself there must be a reason why I am still living. there must be things Allah wants me to do. the moment i woke up from that 12 hours surgery, i was glad. when i saw my mom walked into that ICU room i was happy. i felt like hugging her and all i want to say was i am sorry. i am sorry that you have to go through this.i am so sorry i keep making you worry. but my mom,my family, my close friends.they taught me lessons i could never learn by myself. they taught me about LOVE. and from the moment onwards, i slowly redefine LOVE.

that time when i was so broken that i would understand if they could not hold me because i myself who should love me the most wasn't being able to do so.they held me anyways. so tight that all the pieces felt intact even though it's broken.they cried with me, they prayed for me, they held my hands till the very end when i was ready to let go. i wanted to let go so that they wont get hurt but they insisted. they taught me that in life, a lot of things can go wrong but love, real love will remain. i learned that not everyone can love me so i need to appreciate those who do. they taught me that hardship to love should be like a wind to the fire. it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great. so to the people i love or will love, please know that i may not be able to give you forever but within that limited time God is giving me, I would appreciate you like no other. because the best love story to learn from is not when it's told but when it's shown. my loved ones have taught me so much about love.

Alhamdulillah for them.Alhamdulillah for this second chance.

Sunday, January 11, 2015

the gift of imperfection

i bought this book yesterday and i cant wait to get it delivered to my doorstep. this year, i am trying to make few changes in my life and one of them is to appreciate my imperfections. for 2 years, i have been feeling low and it's about time to pick my confidence up and embrace my flaws.

life is not about trying to be perfect.or competing who is better than the other. for me if i could be better than my previous self,it's more than enough. sometimes, you cant control how your feeling works. it's hard to not let people's expectation gets to you.sometimes i feel like i do something because i am expected to do it. i'm scared of people judging me.

but i need to get things straight now. what matters most is Allah. His judgement is the most important. He is the one i need to please the most.

it's just me really. i dont think people ever look down on me after knowing about my's just me feeling disable about my whole situation. i feel like i should be in this alone. i feel like i'm going to hurt people if i let them hold my hands in this tough situation. i keep on thinking that i will do more harm than good if i let people into my life. i need to stop judging myself. i need to stop thinking that i have to be able to do everything on my own. i need to bear in mind that i am imperfect and i should not blame myself for being so because it's what human should be. only Allah is perfect.

i'll slowly pick myself up.
as what the writer said in her book

Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy—the experiences that make us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.

i'm looking forward to a better a person who would let go of what she is supposed to be and just be who she really is. i wish to be comfortable in my own skin. i wish to be happy in every situation i have been put in. i wish to not regret any decision i made or will make. i wish to love like i've never been hurt.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Dua request

Had my ct scan done today.if the result is stable then i will be off medication for 3months insyaAllah.please make a lot of dua for me.even if it's just a mere 3 months,i would be really happy to be off means 3 months of holiday from diarrhoea and feeling means i can get my black brow back.i stopped last march for 3 months and they restarted it because of some growth that has shrunk 3 months after hopefully i'll get good news next week.even if it's just for couple of months.i will be happy and grateful.keep the dua coming.i hope Allah will repay your kindness.thank youu..thanksss.. lotsa loveeeee